Victims often
feel anxious, depressed, fearful, and unsafe. They often suffer from
anxiety, posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression,
hypervigilance or hypearousal, feelings of guilt, shame, blame, or
anger. They may find that they develop problems in their sexual
relationships.
Both Equine Assisted and traditional therapy can
be helpful. We offer both. Some court systems, in cooperation with the
Equine Assisted Growth and Learning Association (EAGALA) are finding
that the Equine Assisted Counseling can be very empowering and
effective for victims.
Many crimes involve the use of force or
violence, resulting in physical and/or emotional trauma. Each
person will react differently to this violence.
Emotional
trauma can result in denial, disbelief, or anger. Victims may go into
shock or numbness. Many will develop an acute stress disorder, which
can develop into PTSD.
Shock and emotional numbness
They may
feel emotionally numb and shut off from their emotions. They may deny
that anything happened. Without their emotions to guide them, they may
struggle with making decisions. They may feel as if they are watching a
movie about themselves and not really there. This is a type of
dissociation response, a basic survival defense mechanism to help them
cope with their traumatic event.
Denial, disbelief, and anger
Denial
is also common. Another basic defense mechanism, at a subconscious
level their brain tries to deny the event. They may suffer from
disbelief, unable to believe that the trauma has happened to them. And
they may react in anger.
Anger, denial, and disbelief are part
of the grief process that must be worked through for their healing.
These are part of the journey to acceptance in which the victim accepts
what was done to them and can move on with their lives.
Getting Help
Your
Victims Advocate's Office, often a part of the prosecutor's or
solicitor's office, can direct you to locally available resources.
Contact them.
Sexual
assault and assault in general differs from abuse in the degree of
violence.
Assault
Assault is an attack. It is the use of
violence. It is the use of physical force and can involve pushing,
shoving, hitting, and injury. Just because there is no injury, it is
still assault. It can involve the use of the body (fist, feet, etc.),
sticks, or weapons.
Bullying and harassment
Many children,
adolescents, and teens, and even some adults, are bullied or harassed.
Stalking and cyberbullying are special types of these.
Dating violence and rape
As women enter their teenage years and dating, they can experience date rape and violence.
Emotional abuse
Although not technically a crime, emotional abuse can be devastating to child, teen, or adult.